SPREAD LOVE FROM WITHIN YOU

Thoughts for this fabulous day.. I found this message beautiful to the core.. If you ever find yourself in love with someone, who does not love you, be gentle with yourself as well as your thoughts on that person.. Remember love is always inside everyone of us.. There is nothing wrong with you.. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.. If you find someone in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself, and all our hearts feel the same pain and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.. If you fall in love with another person, and he/she falls in love with you, and then that love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim that love or to assess blame.. Simply let it go.. There is a reason and there is a meaning.. You will know it in time.. Remember that you don’t choose love from another person.. Love chooses you.. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.. Feel the way it fills you up and then as it overflows from your heart, then reach out and give it away.. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.. That is where many lovers go wrong.. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need.. They see their hearts as empty places that needs to be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than as something within them.. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a personal need.. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.. Remember this, and keep it to your heart.. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going.. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying with you.. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.. But if it chooses to  leave from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.. Be graceful  in love.. Love always has been and always will remain a mystery.. Be glad that it came into your life, even if only for a moment.. Remember that love always resides within you and if you build up that self love within yourself and then spread this love into the world around you, you will never be short of love, happiness or positive energy in life

Inspiring Thoughts for this fantastic day.. When I woke up this morning and watched the sun slowly rise and cast its golden glow upon the earth, I was spellbound as I wondered what the sun receives from anyone of us in return for the light and warmth it spreads.. The simple answer is Absolutely nothing ZILCH.. Despite that, the sun consistently continues its work on a daily basis, to supply us with precious sunlight which is the key ingredient necessary to grow plants and trees and sustain life.. I want to take this analogy forward to the beautiful life each one of us leads.. Yes, each and every one of us is blessed with a fantastic life.. Yes, in this life we have also been through rough patches and inherited a few scars in the process.. Indeed, some of these scars still hurt and cause a knot in the pits of your heart every time you even think of it .. But my honest submission is that we must focus on all the lovely things this life has blessed us with, focus on only the positives and use the pain we have experienced in our past as beautiful experiences gifted to us to create hope for those still experiencing pain.. We have all been blessed with the strength to breathe, to transform our thoughts and make the next moment a fabulously new moment.. So allow your free spirit to shine bright especially on the gloomiest of days, when you or others experience dark clouds of self doubt or disappointment.. We must sow and spread the seeds of positivity and unconditional love, far and wide, for beneath the facade of external beauty and prosperity that many flaunt, many human beings are starved of kindness and love.. THIS is the message I wish to convey across to the world, every day..  I can only hope that the drop in the ocean effect that I guess I am generating through this message will resonate in the way it is intended to, and each one of us will help the spread of goodness, happiness and unconditional love, with absolutely no expectation of receiving anything in return.. THANK YOU for reading my message and spreading goodness.. YOU are indeed unique and beautiful and may you be blessed always