A long message.. yet very meaningful & appropriate ...so sharing here...In the movie "Taare Zameen Par", the art teacher tells the rude & cursing father of a dyslexic boy about the "Solomon Islands", where the tribals don’t cut down a tree...They simply surround the tree & curse it for hours every day... Within a few weeks, the tree dries up & dies ... Difficult to believe? How can intangible, invisible thoughts & negative words kill a tree?... If you read Bruce H. Lipton’s THE BIOLOGY OF BELIEF, you will think a dozen times before saying something demoralizing to yourself or to the people you love...In this book, Mr. Lipton details the power of the conscious & subconscious mind... The subconscious mind is a million times more powerful than the conscious mind & decides most of the things in our lives according to the beliefs it has...Many times we fail to change an unpleasant habit despite our will-power & conscious efforts. It is because the habit gets so strongly programmed in our subconscious mind that the efforts made by our conscious mind hardly make any difference... The Conscious Mind is just a shadow of our Unconscious Mind... So, when the tribals of Solomon Islands curse a tree, they are actually installing negative & harmful beliefs in the tree’s emotion (yes, trees have emotions)....Within few days, those negative emotions becomes a belief & eventually changes the molecular architecture of the tree & kills it from inside.. 2500 years ago Buddha said ‘You are what you think'.. He was endorsing a scientific fact which is now proved correct by Quantum Physics & Molecular Biology...In this book there is a special chapter on Conscious Parenting highlighting the beneficial & harmful effects of what parents say to their children... If you are a parent and you keep cursing your child in the name of constructive criticism, you are installing beliefs in their mind which will keep harming them forever...But if you keep appreciating them sincerely, you are instilling beliefs in their mind which will help them during their entire life.. Also, be careful of what you keep saying to yourself...Repetition of words & thoughts is the best way to install a belief in your subconscious mind...If you keep saying you are a loser, don’t be surprised if you become a loser within a few months or years....If your friends keep saying such things to you, there is no harm in saying a quick goodbye to them... You may value their friendship a lot. But you must value yourself more than such a negative friendship...Accept all people as they are. Love all people unconditionally... Always keep telling yourself that YOU ARE healthy, wealthy, happy, successful & prosperous!... Be positive always.. This positivity will enrich you and transform your life for the better... Even if you don't believe my words, experiment with what I have said and experience the benefits yourself.. God bless..
