Thoughts for this fabulous day.. I found this message beautiful to the core.. If you ever find yourself in love with someone, who does not love you, be gentle with yourself as well as your thoughts on that person.. Remember love is always inside everyone of us.. There is nothing wrong with you.. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.. If you find someone in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself, and all our hearts feel the same pain and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.. If you fall in love with another person, and he/she falls in love with you, and then that love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim that love or to assess blame.. Simply let it go.. There is a reason and there is a meaning.. You will know it in time.. Remember that you don’t choose love from another person.. Love chooses you.. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.. Feel the way it fills you up and then as it overflows from your heart, then reach out and give it away.. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.. That is where many lovers go wrong.. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need.. They see their hearts as empty places that needs to be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than as something within them.. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a personal need.. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.. Remember this, and keep it to your heart.. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going.. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying with you.. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.. But if it chooses to leave from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.. Be graceful in love.. Love always has been and always will remain a mystery.. Be glad that it came into your life, even if only for a moment.. Remember that love always resides within you and if you build up that self love within yourself and then spread this love into the world around you, you will never be short of love, happiness or positive energy in life
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